Have any of you read J.R. Ward’s books on vampires; the Black Dagger Brotherhood? If vampires were like these guys; would you consider dating one? And why or why not?
For those of you who have not read Ward’s books - these vampires don’t chase down humans to suck their blood – so that wouldn’t be a problem. These guys are black leather clad, tall, dark, and handsome in a rugged Charles Bronson kind of way with a Sean Connery 007 confidence.
It got me to wondering, WHAT KIND OF A MAN IS REALLY ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN?
What are we really looking for when we look for a man?
Do we want the romance of a Sir Lancelot, our knight in shining armor? Or the excitement of a James Dean ~ Steve McQueen type bad boys with a wounded heart only we can heal? Or is it the wild sexy kind of guy like an Elvis Presley or Jon Bon Jovi that make our hearts pump with need and desire? Or is it that “vampire” type dangerous guy…that draws you because you never know what to expect?
I wonder, is it the man? Maybe it’s the lifestyle he offers that draws us.
Mayhaps it’s none of the above, but the lifestyle. Could it be; it’s really just the mystique of living by night like a vampire that draws us to certain men? Or financial security that makes a man like Donald Trump sexy? Perhaps it’s just the thrilling lifestyle of the Jet Set kind of man like (Sir) Richard Bransen that gets our blood boiling with passion?
But I wonder. Maybe it’s just a man’s confidence or lack of that draws us or repels us.
There are a lot of us without a dime in our pocket that have found passion and romance with our Mister Right – he’s not a vampire or a sexy spy or an entertainer with a great voice. Nor can our perfect men offer us a trip to Paris for lunch and back to New York in time to get to the Ballet by eight. Some of our guys even hold a nine to fiver…what made him our knight in shining armor, our bad-boy, our sexy wiggle hips, or our leather clad vampire that stirs our blood of desire?
Or does it all boil down to that unexplainable emotion called ~ LOVE?
Doesn’t matter if he’s rich or poor, muscle bound or beer bellied, no job or work-alcoholic, dark or fair haired, young or old, tall or short, human or vampire…we don’t care – it’s the man WE found that matched us perfectly and made our passions flow.
Just wondering what you thought.
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