Sunday, October 3, 2010

Romantic Sunday's Power

O.K., we've had our woman's independence and freedoms for some time now. We have the right to enjoy sex and be the one in control...if we want. So, this got me to thinking...how many of us woman still prefer the customary roles in the bed room?



Do you prefer to be chased by the man, or do you want to do the chasing?

Do you prefer he's the one in control in the romance department or do you want to play that role?

Just wondering...
Hugs

60 comments:

A man called Valance said...

Put me down as 'just wondering' too. This ought to be interesting.

Houston A.W. Knight said...

LOL Valance,

Well stick around the girls always have interesting things to say...that's why I adore them all so much!

They have great insight and put lots of wonderful idea's in me head for story lines...like last week on Wed. Question...they all had something fab to say to that one.

A man can learn a lot following these chats!

LOL big hugs
Hawk

MsM (Elizabeth Jules Mason) said...

I don't like chasing men. I've got some friends who chase men and are very aggressive about it. I call them stalkers! lol

Personally, I want the man to do the chasing and I don't EVER make it easy for him even if I want him really bad. The harder he works for me, the more he'll appreciate me when I finally "let" him get me. (Grandma taught me that one and she was 100% right!)

Sex? You need to keep their FULL attention so their eyes don't wander. ALWAYS and I do mean ALWAYS let them know what you've got on (or not) under your clothes. You can never ever have enough Victoria Secret pantie & bras.

The key is to have him ALWAYS wanting it, so no matter who starts it he feels like he's won a great prize he's wanted for a long time. He feels rewarded and you're both happy! *grins*

:)

MsM

Blodeuedd said...

I don't chase, I a more a temptress, I tempt and tempt, and then let him chase. And it's who who is the romantic one, always lighting candles, and if I have been really good surprising me with candy ;)

But yes when it comes to passion I tend to be aggressive, but I always let him catch me in the end. What can I say I just can't keep my hands of him, even now when I am ill

Houston A.W. Knight said...

MsM,

Now that sounds like some solid advice from Grandma! Very smart woman.

Yes, I agree with her...men appreciate more something they had to work hard to get. The hard it is to get - the happier he is when he gets it.

Yeah for Grandma! She sounds like a cool lady to me! Woo Hoo! and she knews men! ;-)

hugs
Hawk P.S....I find pillow talk while having sex is an attention keeper for later ... when not in bed...keeps their minds busy thinking about what you said and if you might really do it.

LOL, mine knows most of the time I will so he's always looking for the surprise....or making sure I don't! *G*

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Blod!

You're ill? Oh sweetie, I'm sorry to hear that...you going to be alright?
How long have you been under the weather? What's wrong?

LOL on the temptress...you've got the game down...this is how it's played...we tempt, they chase, we catch them!

*wink*
Hugs
Hawk

Oscar said...

Women are always beating about the bush, and men go directly for it.

Janette Harjo said...

Sure; there are some good things came from all that those "libbers" in the 60s did, but I don't like all of it. I still want/like to be treated as a lady even if I am welcome to all my own opinions and abilities. (Was that a long enough sentence?!) I like doors opened, chairs pulled out, etc.

I also like to be "taken" out w/o the expectation that I pay for my share of the date. Just like in the "old" days. Then once in a while I can surprise him by paying! I guess I'm old-fashioned in that respect.

But I digress ...

I like him to be in control in the romance department. ;) But I wouldn't really call it "control," I guess, bc I like to be able to guide him sometimes, too. ;) If he was in "control," then I couldn't guide him!

JH http://www.authorjanetteharjo.blogspot.com

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Oscar!

There are no truer words than those!

;-)
Hawk

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Janette,

I'm with you..a lot of good came out of women's rights, but there were a lot of other things like manners, and how a man treated a woman that should not have been forgotten.

I like the door being opened for me and since women still don't have equally PAY for the equal job they now have...men should still pay for the date without expectations of bennies.

I wasn't here in America during the movement, but I think equal rights was more about respect for a women who did exactly the same job...they should be paid exactly what the men are...but that war has yet to be won.

Hawk

~Sia McKye~ said...

Hawk, I like it both ways, to be honest. Nuthin' wrong with being in control now and then, but now you have me wondering too, lolol!

Blodeuedd said...

Dunno what's wrong :( and it makes me really sad cos can't get anything done. Got some results back and nothing, sigh

A man called Valance said...

'A man can learn a lot following these chats!'

Yup

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Sia!

Hey darlin' ... I got you wondering...about what? The pillow talk? LOL

Oh...I don't see anything wrong with the woman taking control in the bedroom now and then...keeps things exciting wouldn't you agree? Teheheheeee...and WE do know how to do that!
*Wink*

Big hugs
Hawk

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Blod,

(((big hugs))) I'm sorry to hear this. Please let me know as soon as you know something...this news worries me. You're way too young for this kind of health issues.

Hawk

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Valance!

You back again...and here I thought it was safe for a little girl talk...oops.

LOL...I'm glad you're learning...but from what I hear from Miss Houston over at your Porch you don't need no learning...why she's telling everyone you've got a big....

http://mistervalanceporch.blogspot.com/

way with the women...

*G* why...what were you thinking I was going to say?

LOL
Hawk

Janette Harjo said...

Yeah. I agree with the part about getting equal pay for an equal job, but the men took it way over-board with their manners and the way they treat women!

A man called Valance said...

'why...what were you thinking I was going to say?'

Appetite

Janette Harjo said...

MAN!! You had me all excited, and I don't even KNOW the man!!

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Valance,

You devil! You weren't going to say that! I know you way too well!

But I've heard (from Miss Houston) you have a ravenous appetite...I hear it took you four hours to finish your last meal. *G*

Hawk

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Janette,

Hey Hon...That has to be Valance you're talking about...he does have a way with the women...go visit him http://mistervalanceporch.blogspot.com
he's a wonderful writer, has a great sense of humor and quite a man in general!
Right now there's an on going story going on over there...it's a western! Check it out!

Hugs
Hawk

A man called Valance said...

(Thanks Hawk)

'You devil! You weren't going to say that! I know you way too well!'

Sure I was. It was either big appetite or big hearted. (*polishes halo*)

(Janette - whatever I've got that's big, Hawk likes it. And she ought to know, because since she found it she hasn't stopped coming back for more)

Janette Harjo said...

LOL! You crack me up, Valance.

Wanna share, Hawk?!

Janette Harjo said...

LOL! You crack me up,Valance!

Wanna share, Hawk?!

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Janette,

LOL...that BIG thing I found was Mr. Valance's sense of humor...
Not to worry Janette...he shares that with everyone even with a gal name Cordelia! :-( So I'm sure you'll be added to his bed post marks!

Ain't that right Valance?

Hawk

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Valance,

Halo's from heaven are gold and don't need polishing...but the brass one's from "down under", and I ain't talk Australia, sure take a lot of polishing...just thought you'd like to know.

LOL
Hawk

Janette Harjo said...

:))

A man called Valance said...

‘Ain't that right Valance?’

If we’re talking bedposts, no it ain’t right. But if we’re talking hospitality and plenty of smiles, sure, Janette and anybody else is more than welcome. I ain’t proud, I’ll talk to anyone. Hell, you’re the living proof of that.

‘Halo's from heaven are gold and don't need polishing...but the brass one's from "down under", and I ain't talk Australia, sure take a lot of polishing...just thought you'd like to know.’

Hmm, so that’s what Miss Sweet meant when she said you’d done an awful lot of polishing lately.

JJ Cocker said...

I wanna be loved by someone who thinks I'm worth the effort. Seems to me that guys don't hang around too long these days. Just like the 15 minutes of fame fantasy, Some guys give it 15 minutes to see if there's a glint in yer eye, if not, they're off!

A man called Valance said...

I still love you JJ, glint or no glint. Wouldn't take any effort, either.

Janette Harjo said...

"Hmm, so that’s what Miss Sweet meant when she said you’d done an awful lot of polishing lately."

LOL! Hawk, You and Valance are so funny!

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Valance...you know I'm talking bedpost and I've seen those notches...I believe Cordelia claims a dozen of THOSE as hers! *COUGH COUGH*

Valance said: I ain’t proud, I’ll talk to anyone. Hell, you’re the living proof of that.

*Hawk spits out her sip of coffee as she reads this*

Valance @*^#$!*&%$%#@ you *&*%*&%$&*#@*&!!! Why I... @#@#@$$#*&@#@**COWBOY*&*%$*&@#@BLEEDIN' two timing *&*^%^ GUNSLINGER!!!!

Valance said:‘Halo's from heaven are gold and don't need polishing...but the brass one's from "down under", and I ain't talk Australia, sure take a lot of polishing...just thought you'd like to know.’
Hmm, so that’s what Miss Sweet meant when she said you’d done an awful lot of polishing lately."

}:-Q <-- this is me sticking me tongue out at YOU, funny guy!

You done with that interview YET!?

Hawk

Houston A.W. Knight said...

J.J.,

The next guy who gives you only 15 minutes...tell him it takes an hour to get a glint!

And 15 will get him a "Thanks hon for the quicky" slap on the bum and a shove out the door!"

LOL
Hawk

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Janette,

Yes, hummmmm, Valance...
well, it's that English side of him that knows how to push me Irish...but it's his Irish side that I adore...

That cowboy...well...what can I say! Like most cowboys this cowboy can really get this girl's temper a ride. It's just a good thing I like him so much!

LOL
Hawk

A man called Valance said...

Care to tell Janette how you know about those notches? *cough cough*

And no, I ain’t done with that interview yet. I’ve been busy fixing the hind legs back on a donkey.

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Valance:Care to tell Janette how you know about those notches? *cough cough*

Hawk: {8-O *Cough spit and cough.* NO.

Janette Harjo said...

HUH?!?! "fixing the hind legs back on a donkey"?!?!

Janette Harjo said...

"{8-O *Cough spit and cough.* NO"

Why not?!

Houston A.W. Knight said...

O.K., Valance you tell Janette what the donkey remark means and I'll tell her about the bedpost!

*Hawk clears throat* Miss Houston was obviously in Mr. Valance's BED! *HINT HINT*

Valance...your turn!

LOL
Hawk

Janette Harjo said...

OOOO! The plat thickens!!

Janette Harjo said...

um, I meant "plot."

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Janette,

The plot always thickens when Valance is involved...the man is pure trouble!

*Pssss, he's also a handsome hero. But don't tell him I said so!*

Hawk

A man called Valance said...

OK, the donkey remark - when someone talks a lot it's often said they could talk the hind legs off a donkey. In saying I was fixing the hind legs back on a donkey, I was implying that a certain someone had talked them off. (*insert smile here*)

(Psst! Janette - the bedpost is mine, but the notches are Hawk's. But don't tell her I told you.)

Houston A.W. Knight said...

(Pssst, Janette...The cabin, the farm and the bed were all there at the porch before I got there...and I ain't been there long enough to get one mark in the bedpost...yet!) wink!

Hawk

Houston A.W. Knight said...

They're all his, don't let him tell you any different!

Hawk

A man called Valance said...

Psst! Janette - well, there you have it. Now you know why she coughs, clears her throat and spits so much.

A man called Valance said...

...because she talks so much.

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Hey Cowboy...You sure don't seem to mind my pillow talk... now do you?

Janette Harjo said...

Hawk, I won't tell him he's "pure trouble," if you don't ;)

Janette Harjo said...

"(Psst! Janette - the bedpost is mine, but the notches are Hawk's. But don't tell her I told you.)"

Interesting, VERY Interesting

Janette Harjo said...

" I ain't been there long enough to get one mark in the bedpost...yet!)"

O K A Y

Janette Harjo said...

"They're all his, don't let him tell you any different!"

uh-huh

Janette Harjo said...

"Janette - well, there you have it. Now you know why she coughs, clears her throat and spits so much"

I do?

Janette Harjo said...

"...because she talks so much."

I don't think "she talks so much." You know, women have 10,000 words they need to say each and every day, don't you?

Janette Harjo said...

"Hey Cowboy...You sure don't seem to mind my pillow talk... now do you?"

^o^ ^o^

Those were suppposed to be raised eyebrows. And I want NO comments from thePeanut Gallery!

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Janette,

LOL you make me laugh!

Hugs
Hawk

Janette Harjo said...

:)) fair trade. You and Valance make me LOL too!

A man called Valance said...

'You know, women have 10,000 words they need to say each and every day, don't you?'

Janette - Yup, I sure do. It loosens up their lips for the evening.

Hawk - think maybe we've said enough?

Janette harjo said...

LOL! Foot in Mouth?! LOL!

Houston A.W. Knight said...

Valance me Pard, I believe we have! *wink* that is until tomorrow when I have to get out another 10,000 words!

ROTFLOL
Big ugs
Hawk